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Happy New Year! Mocktails & More

I’m so excited for 2026. I feel like on some level we just barely survived 2025. For everyone I’ve spoken with recently, it was a hard year. When things get too hard for me, I just shut down. Living with autoimmune illness (part of it thyroid) just saps your energy to begin with, so when I have to do more than my spoons allow, my body stops me. Having even one sick person at home, is enough to flare my immune system, so with four of them sick in succession, I’m done. A one hour nap becomes a two or three hour nap and I’m waking up wondering what the hell happened. The dogs are like personal alarm clocks, so I never sleep too long. I am so grateful for the slower pace for a week or two before the middle children go back to college for the semester and the mom-mobile rides again.

I had my bubbly with family to start out 2026 and at least for January, I’ll only be cooking with wine (or tequila). It’s a great time to focus on goals, gummy bears (or spiders), and health. We all have our vices and I’m tweaking mine to be a little healthier. With one diabetic and one pre-diabetic (the bloodwork came back) in the house it means more veggies, less quick carbs, and a higher protein intake (my diabetic is on the shot and losing muscle mass is not an option).

My almost middle child has insulin resistance. His bloodwork does not show diabetes or other issues, but a sensitivity to artificial sweeteners(check your liver enzymes if you drink diet soda & other diet beverages). I can’t drink them either for GI issues, so I just do flavored teas or juice and sparkling water, of course this would happen to the pickiest child on earth, the one that hasn’t touched fruit since he was born. It was easier to sneak vitamins into his food when he was younger, even if it means his pasta had pureed carrots, beets, and spinach in it, or desserts included pureed fruit. It’s a texture thing and he can’t stand it. I’ve been told people on the spectrum have strong aversions to certain foods, I’m seeing that, so I got a juicer. We’re going to try and make pulp-free homemade juices or he’s going to drink the green sludge in the morning with 100% of his daily everything in it. That’s all there is to it.

The soda junkie in him won’t go away easily so we’re back to mocktails (see how this works, lol). I have stockpiled seltzer in all kinds of flavors and fruit juices. It’s how I survived the diabetic diet for three pregnancies. One ounce of your favorite no sugar added juice and seven ounces of any seltzer and you’ve got a homemade soda, with usually no more than 5 grams carbohydrates (compared to 40 grams in a soda).

Tonight I’m drinking 1/2 ounce pomegranate juice, 1/2 ounce cranberry juice, and 7 ounces orange seltzer. We’ll see if the man-child likes it, too.

Since my Christmas book is out, and it’s a quick read spicy vampire book, I’m listing the recipe for a Mocktail Renfield below. Happy Dry January!

Mocktail Renfield-

3 ounces blood orange juice

1 ounces cranberry juice cocktail

4 ounces cold white tea or jasmine tea

gummy spider(or worm) for garnish

ice

Fill a tall or hurricane glass with ice. Add in juices, pour in cold tea, stir. if your man-sters are fussy like mine, skip the ice and use pulp-free orange juice. Garnish with gummy spider and serve. Enjoy!

Wishing you a great start to 2026, may it not be a dumpster fire!

Liquid Friday-Holiday Cookie Edition

The weather outside has been frightful in NJ and combined with the loss of daylight hours, it’s making my children a little grinchy. There are some holiday traditions I know will always pull them out of the funk and get them smiling. Celebrations are important and help mark the passage of time, something that is always in short supply.

This weekend my youngest is going through all his college acceptances, of which there are many and praying to the gods of finances that he can manage to attend one of them. The offers thus far have been lackluster and even with financial aid, make most of them an improbability. So far it he has gotten accepted to six of twenty fantastic schools he applied to in the tristate area and one up in Massachusetts. We are waiting anxiously on the rest.

For a valedictorian, he’s probably gotten accepted to the most colleges & universities of anyone in his school, and with the brilliant minds at work, that says a lot. I’m hoping he is accepted to all of the schools he applied and then one of them will give him an offer he can’t refuse. He is like me with a wanderlust, making him eager to be away and explore new settings. He’s also a tireless geek like his mom and you can find him at his computer researching information for papers and reports until dawn and then going to school to apply his research.

I don’t often talk about my children on social media because I feel like everyone has a right to their privacy, but I’m so proud of him that I had to share it. That being said, he’s a tad grumpy during this stressful time and I know the activity that cheers him up the most-making cookies. He has a sweet tooth that store bought treats can’t satisfy and I encourage his initiative in the kitchen.

Like me he uses fresh fruit, real vanilla, and a little alcohol(the adult beverage kind) as flavoring agents since it’s more economically practical than the little expensive bottles of artificial fruit flavors. Since his grandmother sent us a crate of oranges, I saved one for sugar cookies. I use the rind and all, so I’ll leave you my recipe for drop sugar cookies below.

I am in the process of finishing a book (quick read) and it’s absolute bedlam here, but our Christmas tree is up (it’s black this year), decorated with lights and shiny balls, and we’re having a spooky creepmas for the kids since that’s what they decided. I have creepy paper and bows and am ready to cook a roast beast in full on grinch mode, after our night of the seven fishes because traditions are important(at least a few of them).

The dogs are getting a treat for the holidays, too, but I have to be careful with what I am feeding to Mooshu since he is willing to try anything but changes to his diet often have disastrous consequences. If you have doggies remember not everything on the holiday table is safe for doggies and it is better to make special foods for them in advance-like boiled chicken and fresh veggies or sweet potato, something that doesn’t contain any salt, garlic, onion, or sugar. We got some lovely purple sweet potatoes, full of anthocyanins to help keep them youthful, and we have a metal garbage can that is dog proof to keep them from any tempting cooked bones.

While you wait for my quick read, I’ll pop the recipe below. As with any sugar cookie, add a little more flour, refrigerate for 30 minutes or overnight, and you can roll them out and use your favorite cookie cutters. Add a little natural food coloring for fun swirl cookies.

Drop Sugar Cookie Recipe

Ingredients:

3 cups flour

1 1/4 tsp. baking powder

3/4 tsp. salt

3/4 cup butter or butter substitute

1 1/2 cup sugar (granulated or 10x)

2 eggs

1 tsp. vanilla sugar or 1/2 vanilla bean caviar

1 tsp. orange liqueur

grated orange rind/zest (about 1/2 an orange)

(optional) 1 Tablespoon orange juice

What to do:

  1. Cream butter and sugar together
  2. Add liqueur, zest, vanilla sugar, and fruit juice (1 tablespoon if you choose to add it)
  3. Beat eggs and add in slowly
  4. Sift all your dry ingredients (salt, flour, baking powder) together and slowly add to your wet ingredient mixture until thoroughly combined and without lumps. We don’t want to overwork the cookie dough and make them touch, but we don’t want to chomp down on a lump of flour either.
  5. Cover and refrigerate 30 minutes or overnight. If you are making cookie cutter cookies add at least 2 Tablespoons extra flour.
  6. When you are ready to bake, preheat your oven to 375 degrees Fahrenheit.
  7. Line a baking sheet with parchment paper and drop cookie mixture by the teaspoon or roll out 1/8 inch thick and use cookie cutters. You can add sugar sprinkles before you bake or decorate after. Bake 6-10 minutes or until edges are golden brown. Cool before decorating with royal icing. If you have small children or big artsy ones this activity can take hours 🙂
  8. Serve and enjoy

Tip: I like to sandwich some rose jam or orange marmalade between two cookies-so good with a cup of tea or coffee.

Have a happy holiday. If you are looking for holiday cocktail mixers-check the Liquid Friday blog for lots of great recipes, some from your favorite authors.

All Tied Up In Knots Series New Release

Sometimes it takes a while to get to get the e-books up and approved, but this one sailed through. I’m hoping the paperback will be released soon, but in the meantime I’m so excited to share this with you.

Knot A Psychic, is book number 9 of the All Tied Up In Knots Series. It is the third full length book and a crossover book between the All Tied Up In Knots Series and the Help Wanted Romance Series (supernatural & monster books). I wanted a fun way to mix things things up in time for Halloween, so I hope you love this book as much as I do.

Many of you know me from my side job as a Psychic Reader. I’ve always had a love of all things carnival. I think I have Seaside Heights and Six Flags to blame for my cheap thrills addiction. Now, I chase carnivals, whether its for the beautiful belly dancers, clever balloon twisters, candy floss (cotton candy) and sweet makers, henna artists, or other entertainers who knows, I love them all.

Having worked with many other entertainers over the years has given me some insight into the personalities behind the performance. Instead of killing the magic, it has done the opposite and I often find myself making pilgrimages to one faire or another for the rush of adrenaline fueled by thrill rides and excited screams.

My children are equally big on cheap thrills and we get season passes for places I know they’ll stay from the time they open until they shut down for the night. Whether it’s a magician or the thrill of lit up carnival rides after dark that get’s you, you know that feeling of excitement.

Before the big venues shut down for the season, I’m going to go on one more roller coaster (as soon as the weather lifts) and maybe have one last candy apple before Halloween.

Now, back to the book… Knot A Psychic

Here is the blurb:

Mystic, psychic reader extraordinaire, can help everyone else with their troubles but is completely lost when it comes to her own messy life. Her whisperers offer advice but she can’t force people to bend themselves to her will and change the future for the better. It cost her the love of her life, Mike, because he refused to listen to her pleas and succumbed to injuries caused by a motorcycle accident. Bereft, Mystic decides to live her life out alone, away from people.

Johnathon Riley convinces him to do one more gig, an annual event for charity. Chaos ensues, when a serial murderer comes to destroy the only person who might be able to identify him, Mystic. Together with Detective Steve Turner, Mystic is determined to flesh out the criminal, even though it means attending a BDSM event on a cruise under a different identity with no way out if things go wrong.

Ghoulish fun at Six Flags in Jackson, NJ

Since I always include a segment about the author and a recipe, let’s combine the two. I’m a huge fan of apple picking and apple cider-hot, cold, with alcohol… doesn’t matter-just love the stuff. Since I’ve picked up a gallon of apple cider which will last about a day with the imps in the house. It’s cocktail time for me.

Top Shelf Caramel Apple Cocktail-’cause you deserve the good stuff

Ingredients:

Ice

Apple Slices for Garnish

Chopin or Belvedere Vodka

Butterscotch Liqueur

Apple Liqueur

Apple Cider (to taste)

Caramel Drizzle

Fill tall glass with ice and add equal portions (1/2 jigger of each) of Vodka, Butterscotch Liqueur, and Apple Liqueur. Add apple cider to taste and drizzle over caramel for that syrupy sweet taste. Garnish with a slice of orchard fresh apple and serve.