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Last Weekend of Dry January

And yes, we’re expecting another snowfall

We’ve been buried by snow this year and I find myself writing my latest work while alternatively holding a several times microwaved cup of hot tea, because I just can’t get warm enough. I have Reynaud’s Syndrome, it’s part of my overlap autoimmune disease, but in a nutshell it means my fingers and toes can blanch due to cold, emotional states, and well… just whenever the hell it wants to. I’m sure in the larger picture it is just the body redirecting blood back towards the heart and vital organs but zombie-hand is visually disconcerting.

Wine has been suggested for the condition as it is a vasodilator, and if it lasts more than 30 minutes I may just grab a glass of Pinot Noir and get a dose of resveratrol, a polyphenol antioxidant found in grapes, red wine, berries… I’m always looking to improve my health and if you saw the hand full of supplements I take on the daily to mitigate the symptoms of autoimmune disease you’d wonder how I had room for breakfast. My endocrinologist has asked why don’t I just get one good supplement from one of the larger health food stores, but my allergy to blueberries and mushrooms has made it near impossible to find one that doesn’t contain either. I am the person that calls every company before buying the bottle to find out if either of my two troublesome ingredients are in their “proprietary formula” and for most they are so I end up taking single vitamins. It’s costly and time consuming and frustrating. I eat healthy and I’m one of those weirdos that actually enjoys their veggies (lightly steamed, blanched, or pan fried so they are still crunchy), but when my bloodwork says I’m deficient in something I turn to formulary.

I know some of my readers are living with chronic illnesses and after dealing with this nightmare for decades, I don’t know how you do it. Thanks for being my support and trying to keep me sane in all this bedlam. Stay strong.

HUGE ACORNS IN NOVEMBER!!!

Back to snow, I knew this winter was going to be rough because I read the signs, from the wider banding on woolly bear caterpillars to the size of the acorns. Sometimes even the smell of the air can give you clues to what is coming your way and like a bloodhound I can smell snow before it comes, OCD is my superpower and with it comes complete body awareness-sometimes annoying body awareness. There is something special about every season, and seeing my children and the now less chubby hubby(more on that below) pitch in to clear snow while leaving treats for the non-migratory birds in our area makes me beyond happy. We have a large wildlife population since we live next to a salt marsh.

Though I miss seeing the deer everyday, I know they have nice spots to hide under the wider conifers and there are still some areas of exposed green they can feed and people sneak them food, though before you feed your local wildlife, check what is safe and understand not all animals are friendly, not even deer. However, by me, these deer have learned to take food from people and all year I find offerings people have left for them. I still see them eating grasses and vegetation and occasionally someone’s tasty flowerbed, but it’s all part of getting your vitamins I suppose.

Anyway, embracing the new healthier you is something I got the chubby hubby on board. He has a long family history of diabetes and his sugars were running super high. He is now within normal numbers (with meds, diet and exercise) and has lost around fifty pounds. He would have lost more but the biceps and quads are larger and the six pack he lost decades ago is returning. Muscle weighs more than fat-a note to everyone heading back to the gym, you might actually gain weight in the beginning as you add muscle. We are super proud of the work the now less chubby hubby has done and the example he is setting for the imps.

As for me, I have gotten a new glucose meter and my numbers are within normal limits with diet alone (yay!), even though it means giving up my gummy bears and Dr. Pepper (stress snacks) for a while and weighing my fruit. Discipline is everything and I will be walking more once the weather lifts, hoping the groundhog says it is soon this year. I know my spring weekends are busy because of my side gig as an artist with moving 3-dimensional canvases. If face painting toddlers through adults doesn’t give you a workout, nothing will. I actually do back exercises to be ready for painting, and for any artists out there those yoga balls are great!

Now, I normally leave a recipe and talk up a book and since I don’t have a guest author this weekend, I want to invite you to look through my previous posts at some of the incredible authors we’ve had. Since I am sans author this week, I’m going to tell you about what I’ve been writing.

Valentine’s Day is a huge holiday for me, partly because my daughter was born on that day and partly because I am a hearts and flowers kind of girl. I love adventures and though I was offered a bed and breakfast weekend this year, I had to pass on it because I’ll be celebrating Valentine’s day with my local karate school. I’m bringing the cake pops.

Since it’s such a huge holiday for me, I figured to write a Valentine’s day story, and with me its either monsters or mayhem. This time mayhem won out, so be ready for adventure. Fingers crossed, the Amazon entities will push it through quickly and I’ll have this out to you by Valentine’s Day.

When the snow falls, I’ll be drinking my high-polyphenol hot chocolate which isn’t at all bad without dairy so long as I add 4 grams of sugar of in the raw or add it to decaf American style coffee.

This is a recipe that you can spice up with alcohol, or leave it a virgin and the kids can have it too. There are probably hundreds of versions of this, this is mine. Enjoy!

Strawberry Jello Drink-the perfect mid-winter pick me up

Ingredients:

1-6oz. Package strawberry flavored Jello

2-cups hot water

4-cups ice (lemonade ice cubes perk this up even more)

1-2 liter Sprite to taste (substitute lemon or lime flavored seltzer if you are going for less sugar)

2 cups pineapple juice

1 container of fresh strawberries

You’re also going to need:

1- Large carafe/jug

1- heat resistant 8 cup container

1- kettle

1-cutting board

Glasses for serving

Oven mitts

Ice cube tray-if your making your own lemonade ice cubes

How to make it:

  1. First, assemble everything you need
  2. Cut strawberries in half or slices, reserve a few for garnish
  3. Boil water in kettle
  4. Pour two cups boiling water into heat safe container. I use borosilicate glass or Pyrex. Don’t forget your oven mitts here. This is super hot.
  5. Add Jello and stir until dissolved. Will still be hot so be careful.
  6. Let Jello mixture cool slightly.
  7. Add your pineapple juice to the Jello mixture. The bromelain in the pineapple juice will keep the Jello from setting, so no worries about a clumpy drink. (Fresh kiwi also works if you don’t have pineapple juice-actinidin in kiwi stops Jello from setting)
  8. Cool completely
  9. Pour in a pitcher, add your Sprite or lemon lime soda and get ready to serve.
  10. Fill glasses with ice (lemonade cubes if you have them) and sliced strawberries. Fill glasses with drink and garnish with strawberry.
  11. Serve and enjoy!

If you are skipping out on Dry January and making this for the over 21 crowd add 1.5 ounces of champagne, vodka, tequila, or clear rum to each glass or 1 cup(8oz.) per pitcher. Remember to be sure everyone has a safe way home and no one is driving anywhere-the sugar and alcohol sneak up on you.

Liquid Friday-Holiday Cookie Edition

The weather outside has been frightful in NJ and combined with the loss of daylight hours, it’s making my children a little grinchy. There are some holiday traditions I know will always pull them out of the funk and get them smiling. Celebrations are important and help mark the passage of time, something that is always in short supply.

This weekend my youngest is going through all his college acceptances, of which there are many and praying to the gods of finances that he can manage to attend one of them. The offers thus far have been lackluster and even with financial aid, make most of them an improbability. So far it he has gotten accepted to six of twenty fantastic schools he applied to in the tristate area and one up in Massachusetts. We are waiting anxiously on the rest.

For a valedictorian, he’s probably gotten accepted to the most colleges & universities of anyone in his school, and with the brilliant minds at work, that says a lot. I’m hoping he is accepted to all of the schools he applied and then one of them will give him an offer he can’t refuse. He is like me with a wanderlust, making him eager to be away and explore new settings. He’s also a tireless geek like his mom and you can find him at his computer researching information for papers and reports until dawn and then going to school to apply his research.

I don’t often talk about my children on social media because I feel like everyone has a right to their privacy, but I’m so proud of him that I had to share it. That being said, he’s a tad grumpy during this stressful time and I know the activity that cheers him up the most-making cookies. He has a sweet tooth that store bought treats can’t satisfy and I encourage his initiative in the kitchen.

Like me he uses fresh fruit, real vanilla, and a little alcohol(the adult beverage kind) as flavoring agents since it’s more economically practical than the little expensive bottles of artificial fruit flavors. Since his grandmother sent us a crate of oranges, I saved one for sugar cookies. I use the rind and all, so I’ll leave you my recipe for drop sugar cookies below.

I am in the process of finishing a book (quick read) and it’s absolute bedlam here, but our Christmas tree is up (it’s black this year), decorated with lights and shiny balls, and we’re having a spooky creepmas for the kids since that’s what they decided. I have creepy paper and bows and am ready to cook a roast beast in full on grinch mode, after our night of the seven fishes because traditions are important(at least a few of them).

The dogs are getting a treat for the holidays, too, but I have to be careful with what I am feeding to Mooshu since he is willing to try anything but changes to his diet often have disastrous consequences. If you have doggies remember not everything on the holiday table is safe for doggies and it is better to make special foods for them in advance-like boiled chicken and fresh veggies or sweet potato, something that doesn’t contain any salt, garlic, onion, or sugar. We got some lovely purple sweet potatoes, full of anthocyanins to help keep them youthful, and we have a metal garbage can that is dog proof to keep them from any tempting cooked bones.

While you wait for my quick read, I’ll pop the recipe below. As with any sugar cookie, add a little more flour, refrigerate for 30 minutes or overnight, and you can roll them out and use your favorite cookie cutters. Add a little natural food coloring for fun swirl cookies.

Drop Sugar Cookie Recipe

Ingredients:

3 cups flour

1 1/4 tsp. baking powder

3/4 tsp. salt

3/4 cup butter or butter substitute

1 1/2 cup sugar (granulated or 10x)

2 eggs

1 tsp. vanilla sugar or 1/2 vanilla bean caviar

1 tsp. orange liqueur

grated orange rind/zest (about 1/2 an orange)

(optional) 1 Tablespoon orange juice

What to do:

  1. Cream butter and sugar together
  2. Add liqueur, zest, vanilla sugar, and fruit juice (1 tablespoon if you choose to add it)
  3. Beat eggs and add in slowly
  4. Sift all your dry ingredients (salt, flour, baking powder) together and slowly add to your wet ingredient mixture until thoroughly combined and without lumps. We don’t want to overwork the cookie dough and make them touch, but we don’t want to chomp down on a lump of flour either.
  5. Cover and refrigerate 30 minutes or overnight. If you are making cookie cutter cookies add at least 2 Tablespoons extra flour.
  6. When you are ready to bake, preheat your oven to 375 degrees Fahrenheit.
  7. Line a baking sheet with parchment paper and drop cookie mixture by the teaspoon or roll out 1/8 inch thick and use cookie cutters. You can add sugar sprinkles before you bake or decorate after. Bake 6-10 minutes or until edges are golden brown. Cool before decorating with royal icing. If you have small children or big artsy ones this activity can take hours 🙂
  8. Serve and enjoy

Tip: I like to sandwich some rose jam or orange marmalade between two cookies-so good with a cup of tea or coffee.

Have a happy holiday. If you are looking for holiday cocktail mixers-check the Liquid Friday blog for lots of great recipes, some from your favorite authors.

Halloween Edition Liquid Friday Blog

It’s time to celebrate. The decorations are up, the pumpkins have been carved, the puppies are in costume, and a big bucket of candy is waiting outside for my trick-or-treaters. I’ve got some party foods in the oven, including pigs-in-a-blanket and spooky English muffin pizzas for the kids. Since I’m having children at the party, I will have some spooky mocktails for them and something a little stronger for me. Make sure you pick one color with alcohol and one color without and please if you are using a punchbowl, put the nonalcohol version out. Keep the over 21 version safely away from children and make sure guests that are drinking are not driving-I can’t stress this enough.

I’ve spent this month getting my newest book, Knot A Psychic out on Amazon in the many forms readers like, so I’m completely batty at this point. After the big release I grabbed my favorite horror books from Stephen King, Anne Rice, Clive Barker, and some of the original greats and have been reading. It’s Halloween here all year, so scary books are not in short supply.

This is also the last day 10/31/2025 to pick up your free Kindle copy of Knot An Actress, book 1 of the All Tied Up In Knots series. Don’t wait until the free offer is gone.

With the snacks in the oven and the timer set, it’s time to start making the mock/cocktails. See the recipes below and let me know which is your favorite.

Pick one for adults and one for children (different colors so there are no mix ups).

Dracula’s Teeth- sure to knock the teeth off your favorite vampire! It’s a fun twist on a Kir Royale.

Adult version-(this has alcohol, so drink in moderation and don’t drive or operate heavy machinery)

Making for children or alcohol free peeps-omit all the alcohol (use the substitutions) and put in cute spooky glasses-yes you can add some fangs ’cause its fun. I’ve also used clear plastic cups with lids and bat stickers-huge success.

What you’ll need:

Wax or Plastic Vampire Teeth

Martini Glasses or Champagne Flutes

A bottle of CHILLED Champagne, Spumante, or Moscato depending on your taste (substitute sparkling cider for children)

Chambord Black Raspberry Liqueur (substitute 1/2 ounce blackberry juice and 1/2 ounce black cherry juice for children)

Enough Grenadine to dip your fangs in

Recipe- double, triple, or quadruple as needed

1 ounce Chambord Black Raspberry Liqueur (5 ounces if you make it by the pitcher)

5 ounces Champagne, Spumante, or Moscato (entire bottle if you make it by the pitcher)

Enough grenadine to dip your glasses in and fangs to garnish your glasses(see image above for inspiration). What I like to do is take a small plate and pour about 2 ounces grenadine onto it and just refill as needed when rimming glasses. You can also add some red dusting sugar if you have sparkly vampires.

  1. Rim your glasses and soak your fangs in grenadine.
  2. Add 1 ounce Chambord to your glass.
  3. Fill to just below the rim with 5 ounces or so of your favorite bubbly.
  4. Garnish glass with fangs, and serve cold.

Purple People Eaters

Remember, if you are making this for ADULTS THAT DRINK ALCOHOL(over 21) you can use the alcohol version. If you are making this for children or adults that don’t drink alcohol, double the amount and put in cute glasses(not shot glasses).

What you need:

Gummy eyeballs, lots of them!

Shot glasses (or fun cups for children)

Vodka (substitute 7-up or Sprite for children)

Blue Curaçao (substitute Blue Kool-aid for children)

Sweet & Sour Mix (omit for children)

Grenadine (Thicker red kool-aid works fine if you don’t have any on hand)

Cranberry juice- the redder, the better

Ideally, you’re looking to get that purple color so play with ingredients if you don’t like the shade.

Recipe:

1 1/2 ounces vodka

1 ounce Blue Curacao

1 ounce sweet & sour mix

1 ounce grenadine

1 ounce or more cranberry juice

Add all ingredients to a measuring cup or pitcher and pour into shot glasses. Add gummy eyeball, serve.

Remember if you are serving this variation for children, make sure everything (including your grenadine) is alcohol free. Double or triple the recipe for children and don’t forget the gummy eyeballs. Yes, you can make this all in a punch sized bowl, but I prefer cups with lids for small children. (2024 Target had these cute eyeball shaped glasses with lids, perfect for children that want some spooky fun- or you can decorate paper cups with a self adhesive googly eyeball just saying)